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Tuesday, March 29, 2011

fiksi

most people in the art scene i've met will at least once in their lifetime as an artist say something to the effect of... "good art comes from the heart..."

well... my dad name is Minhat. its either the heart is mean, or the heart is mean as in average. in both cases, the heart does not care one bit.

some guys i've met at work struggled to prove how smart they are... and sometimes they will say things like "you are not as smart as you think you are..." to each other. which is funny.

i think trying to prove you are smarter than another is actually quite weak and desperate.

people will usually start with superficial things to justify their existence, to differentiate themselves, like for instance, wealth in general, driving a big car, having a trophy wife... good looks, muscles... when all that aren't available people will fall unto intellectual capacity... "well at least i'm smart..." and when even that isn't available... people will fall back to religion. which is the last line of defence.

"at least aku semayang, ingat tuhan..." yeah. whatever.

whatever it is, if you are working extra hard to justify yourself, to continuously differentiate yourself... you are no different. you are not unique... you are the same... and you are easily defined and predictable.

don't fight it, it's inevitable.

32 comments:

Anonymous said...

Human beings will always try to justify for something that they are lack of. Pathetic as it may sound but it can be amusing at times..

p/s: cantik specs,bro

-confusedhyppo-

Anonymous said...

Agreed. I know exactly what you mean. I do have “friends” who always being competitive in everything. Kalau dalam pelajaran maybe still acceptable. Tapi kalau sampai siape lg up to date in fashion pon nak compare, mmg mengarutlah. It was funny at first but it getting annoying day by day. And the worst part is some of them will make me feel worst about myself and comparing my life with their so called perfect life. So yes I think trying to prove you’re smarter/better that anyone else is pretty desperate and pathetic.

Anonymous said...

The moment you have to justify your relevance, you are (obviously) irrelevant. The moment you have to justify your existence, you (basically) don't exist ;)

Anonymous said...

the way u tulis this blog pn dh tnjuk yg u sndr pn mmg ske show off and prove urself how smart u r..rite???do not be caught looking for the mistakes of others.look at urself first before talking about other people.

redza minhat said...

anon 10.01 - it's my blog, not yours. you have the option of not reading it. so please stop reading it if it made you feel small or inadequate.

cheers.

B said...

minhat.
kalau dalam bahasa arab, min=dari, from.
so kalau combine min (arabic) and hat (heart) it still means 'from heart'.

hehe

redza minhat said...

thanks B. i never knew that.one of the most useful comments i've read. thanks!

Anonymous said...

out of topic..i rs u x yah la berlakon drama..juz fokus on teater..dlm najihah tu u nampak cam kaku...i like u more dlm zombi..hehehe..

redza minhat said...

sure anon 3.48. what other advice you have for me?

Anonymous said...

"You are not special. You are not a beautiful or unique snowflake. You're the same decaying organic matter as everything else." ~borrowed words from Mr.Tyler Durden. Mr.Tyler is fiction, but his wisdom is real.

-NN-

Anonymous said...

anon 10.01 talk right then, ya rite this is ur blog but people out there can read it and comment wutever they want,so terimalah, jangan cepat sangat melatah, be professional.

suri

Anonymous said...

if u dont like all the negative comment from people out there, then dont post it,everyone has their own opinion, terimelah dgn hati terbuka..'this my blog,not yours,so its up to me nk tulis apepn' adalah satu alasan biasa bl seseorg da xtau nak ckp ape.

Anonymous said...

sory


-anon 10.01-

klownfish's stupid looking puppy said...

anon 9:58 & suri

u wanna say u say. but tak perlu impose. and dont assume the reason why he said it is because ia hanyalah sekadar alasan sebab dah taktau nak cakap apa. m sure he has a better comeback but just choose to be indifferent kot. and likewise to you, if you dont like what you read then stop reading it. your choice.

anon 10:01

motive of ur comment? ayat kesedaran ke? then sorry for? sorry i dont get ur trail of thoughts ni.

:)

xoxo

mariakamalmilatu said...

It's easy for us to say because we're pretty, smart and funny all at the same time....hahahaha....although there are some people who ARE pretty, smart and funny but STILL insecure...

I guess we all want our share of attention, acknowledgement and approval, it's just that we do it differently, and some people manage to annoy some others while doing it, including you and me.. :P

Anonymous said...

I love playing bimbo.. Easier than proving myself smart. Too bad i'm not blonde.. ;)

Princess R.

Anonymous said...

wow, marahnye..takotnye i..ok then, i xkn comment pape bout ur redza minhat lg ye..just nak bgtau, mcm mane u menangkan redza minhat pn, u xkn dapat die, so xpayahla toooooooo emosional ya.

Anonymous said...

x payahla nk gado2 dalam blog org lain, sooooooo not professional..x malu ke???lantakla org nk bg komen apepn, x payahla nk menangkn sape2, mcmla redza tu bf korg sume pn, biala komen papepn, marahnye bl org bg komen negative, mcm budak kecik, memalukan, relax sudaaaaa...kalau mcm ni la keadaannye, mmg sape2 pn xle komen negativela lam blog redza ni, tahpapetah korg ni.

Anonymous said...

hanya orang2 bodoh je yang layan orang2 bodoh..so yang marah2 n menangkan sape2 tu pn same bodoh..haha..

-si pandai-

Anonymous said...

to klownfish's stupid 10.33am

u nak marah sgt ni redza tu bf u ke???haha...

klownfish's stupid looking puppy said...

bak kata redza

don't fight it, it's inevitable

:)

cheers
xoxo

Anonymous said...

all the comments posted here really proved your point..some people have the urge to belittle others just to make them feel superior..


-confusedhyppo-

Anonymous said...

macam budak kecik...

aku xphm nape klownfish's stupid mcm mrh sgt...
aku xphm nape smpai kene gado...
aku xphm nape xle komen negatively..
adakah comment from org yg tgk blog sape2 perlu 'positive' shj???
adakah salah kalau kte comment 'negative'???
lg 1 aku xphm, konon mcm professional dgn ayat ni 'dont fight it, its inevitable', tp peliknya fight jgk..
org professional hanya senyap n let it go ape org nk ckp..bukan lawan sana sini..
all of u yg fight anon 10.01 mmg x proffesional lgsg...
msg2 mcm budak umo 2 tahun...
sory if my komen ni sakitkn ati sape2 k..aku just komen pe yg aku rs..xyala emo sgt..ni kn komen2biasa je..terima jela..
last dr aku, pasni jgn nak fight ngan aku plak disbbkn komen aku ni k..aku x layan..im PROFFESIONAL..

Anonymous said...

redza im sooo sory..because of my comment, sume jadi gado..sory jgk if my comment anoy u..i da xkn jenguk ur blog again..sory.

redza minhat said...

ok. this goes to all relevant anonymous 'professional' people. the fact that all of your comments are published without any censorship means i allow any comments. negative or not. right?

number two. you are contradicting yourself by not allowing people to have opinions on your comments no? are you saying you are free to say whatever you wanna say (anonymously) but other people can't have any opinion on your so called 'professional' comments? and let's not go to the fact that you commented anonymously. there is no weight in that actually.

third. anon 10.01 said this, "the way u tulis this blog pn dh tnjuk yg u sndr pn mmg ske show off and prove urself how smart u r..rite???do not be caught looking for the mistakes of others.look at urself first before talking about other people" - all anonymous clearly misread my reply, a blog is a personal space, if you do not like whatever is on it. stop reading. or go write your own. as easy as that.

and lastly, if you felt imposed, insulted or inadequate please please, i beg, stop reading this blog. i do not need you. i am not in the business of being likable.

redza minhat said...

and this goes to anonymous 12.56.











...

shit i fell asleep reading your comment. next time maybe.

redza minhat said...

anonymous. i'm tired of you saying sorry. own up to your comments. you did nothing wrong.

grow up.

Anonymous said...

Omg. korang ingat ni blog apa? Beautifulnara? Oh bulan? Silap la wey! Sensitif macam celaka semua orang. Geli sial. Ko nak sensitif sensitif gi blog fasha sandha la!

Rimasssss. Professional konon.

I lap u rm :*

reza said...

Hahahahahahahahahahahaaaaa
(sorry, i couldn't resist!)

BEEdadari said...

i need a like button on this post. LIKE.

saidatul said...

wow! it is hard to talk/explain/describe about human/people/character of people...etc...because its very very very subjective...nice feedback guys...hahaha..how i wish ade 'LIKE' button... :)

btw nice knowing you redza...

frankredsz said...

redza i dont care if my existence is obsolete..
as long as im the most important person in your eyes (haha comment fan obsessed dgn redza!)